YKINMKATO.
YOUR KINK IS NOT MY KINK AND THAT’S OKAY.
YOUR SHIP IS NOT MY SHIP AND THAT’S OKAY.
YOUR PLAIN OLD INTERESTS ARE NOT MY INTERESTS AND GUESS WHAT?
THAT’S OKAY.
Until you actually mean it, you are in no way a decent, mature fanthing.
BNFs, of all people, should know this.
if a cis male forces himself on anyone it’s rape
if a cis female forces herself on a cis male it’s rape
if a transgendered person forces themselves on anyone it’s rape
if someone outside of the gender binary forces themselves on anyone it’s rape
if anyone forces themselves on anyone it’s rape
rape is vile no matter how you slice it
I am focusing on women here. I tend to do that, being one and all, but let’s mention something about men. If men have been raised to behave aggressively, to discount what women and weaker men want and feel and say, to obtain power and social standing through force, to deny emotions exist, to feel that women are fundamentally a different species, to set a boundary and keep it NO MATTER WHAT, to make a decision and stick to it NO MATTER WHAT, to feel entitled to sex, to feel they will be ostracized and possibly physically attacked if they don’t acquire sex with women, to feel under threat of harassment and attack if they don’t constantly maintain a hyper-masculine exterior, to prove their manhood through dangerous and degrading physical activities…
if you have seen men behave in this way, and encouraged it, and thought it was normal, so normal you didn’t even see it…
then you never have the right to say “He couldn’t possibly have done that” when you hear that your brother raped somebody.
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Another post about rape (via azurewren) Because men can’t be raped, right? The only victims ever are cis women. Trans women, trans men, queer folks… fuck ‘em too, yes? And that’s not even getting into the rapist side. |
nevercouldgetthehangofthursdays:
Inspired by this post.
Gif by: casinthetardis
Okay, THIS is the best one yet!
WINS IT
sydneywonderwomanironmanwillis:
are you ever so involved in your own little world you actually forget most people are actually offended by things like nudity and certain clothes and body types and sexual orientations
One of the perils of fandom. The real world seems to hate YKINMKATO.
